Handfasting Ceremony

The term 'Handfasting' comes from the custom of shaking hands over a contract. "Handfasting" refers to the hands being bound together with a cord as part of the ritual. Ever heard of "tying the knot" or "the ties that bind"?

Traditionally, a handfasting ceremony was a temporary agreement which lasted a year and a day, at which time the couple would decide if they wanted to make it permanent.

In modern Pagan traditions, it may be used either in the informal betrothal sense, or may be used as a legal wedding, complete with wedding license. For some it is a year and a day, renewable "so long as love shall last" and for others a commitment to be together throughout this life time, or through many lives.

Today's ceremonies may involve a legal marriage, but not necessarily. Some couples choose to have a handfasting ceremony but not include the 'legal rites'

Couples may choose the handfasting ritual to be incorporated within a more traditional ceremony, signifying their decision to be bound to each other.

The 'binding' together is symbolised by coloured cords that are tied around he bride and groom's hand.

To see a sample of a handfasting ceremony, click HERE